You’ve run around the problem in your mind hundreds of times.
You’ve had problems that persist like this before.
Why can’t you do what you know is necessary?
Who can you turn to for answers?
Life coaches don’t have your answers.
They aren’t gurus.
They can’t fix your problems.
A life coach simply takes you from observing your problems to activating your solutions.
You’re the expert.
Coaching helps when you’ve decided to:
Design your solutions.
Clarify your desires and options.
Devote time and energy to make changes.
You are a free agent that will ultimately have to answer for your decisions.
Living someone else’s life is a bad idea because they aren’t the ones responsible for your decisions.
Consultants, therapists, mentors, and coaches are great helps.
But they are not you.
They do not have your problems.
They do not have your potential.
Designing your solutions gives you an edge because it floods your soul with motivation.
You have more skin in the game.
Who knows your situation best anyways?
You!
A good life coach will partner with you to draw out your solutions from your values, emotions, and thoughts.
The coaching process kick-starts the motivation engine.
Unidentified desires are the source of most unmet expectations and assumptions.
They create all kinds of frustration.
Then anxiety sets in because you can’t find a way to get what you want when you don’t know what you want.
The antidote for this is hope.
And hope comes when your desires are clarified and a path leading to them is discovered.
Good life coaches ask insightful questions that draw out values, assumptions, desires, and opportunities in a brighter light.
The coaching process offers a thinking partner to rope your desires and options down to give you hope.
Solutions and awareness alone can’t bring about the change you long for.
Change requires personal effort.
It’s overwhelming for us all.
Forming new habits is difficult.
Initiating something new or engaging in a necessary conflict is scary.
But time and energy to change is necessary to turn your desires into reality.
And devoting yourself to making your dreams come true shows your “self” that you support you.
If you won’t work towards a life that you truly want, you are telling your inner self that what it wants is not worth your effort.
If it’s not worth your time and effort, why would it be worth anyone else’s?
Failing to execute your plans fuels deep insecurity.
When you can’t seem to overcome fear, think of what you lose if you don’t change.
Health. Wealth. Growth. Respect. Meaningful memories with loved ones.
Are you willing to lose these beautiful things to save yourself the effort?
A life coach can help you see what you gain when you try and lose when you chicken out.
The coaching process will place positive pressure on you to make your changes.
If you’ve made these decisions,
life coaching could work for you.
Reach out to me on my contact page.
I’m rooting for you!
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